The Year in Notes

Three whole notebooks, from business planning to hoping to initiating to bungling to love Liel to etcetera.  So officially, the harem is no more and there is seriousness on the part of you know who to stick to one woman or shall we say young lady, (I'm holding my breath!).  Of course having a wealthy prospective daughter in law would have come in handy (if she is not Mossad!) or maybe could the German one have been better?  My son's life is a book, called Facebook.  If you want to see expressions crossing his face, from mum don't to I will never talk to you again, just move the cursor to log out, accidentally or on purpose.  When working, he is online, when not working, he is online, when sleeping, he is online and his life is one line - online.  Get him off the computer for a minute and his face gets long and off to sleep he goes, that's the price of Facebook.

Which brings me back to manifestations and motivation and people, if I can describe my life minute by minute and what actually happens in it, Big Brother Africa would run out of business, ha ha ha!  Now, I have a nasty habit.  Its called, let me run this by this or that person.  Not necessarily to solicit their opinion, but just to confirm that what I think they will say is what they actually say.  Its not pre-judging, but rather, pre-assessing and based on the people I think I know (I do not know myself), I have truly surprised myself this week.  Of course today is only Tuesday and there is Wednesday to Friday to go. ( then I will stop).  The reason is simple really.  I need to break a personal tendency to expect the worst, accept it and consider it normal.  Let me say that again.  I need to break a personal habit to expect the worst, accept it and consider it normal.  What's NOT normal is expecting the worst from the onset.  There, I rest my case.  Life is full of joyous outcomes.  (Mr. so and so is dozing and its work-time!).  Should I nudge him or leave him to enjoy himself in this blistering heatwave?  

To get back to the point I am supposed to have already made, everyone on earth should enjoy their suffering.  People, please, hold on a minute.  Yes, you should enjoy your suffering because if you make it a habit of enjoying something difficult, then it ceases to be difficult and before you know it, you free your mind and loads, I mean loads of other opportunities and possibilities suddenly FLOOD!  If you think I'm joking, try it and see.  As usual, my favourite supporter is already trying this out, my son of course and you know what, it has changed the way he is thinking.  Where there was vacuous positivity, there are suggestions for solutions that may or may not actually work, but suggestions which were not there before.  Instead of thousand dollar dreams, now he sees billion dollar possibilities and listening to him .....  I must say I am looking forward to more Facebook and use of Facebook from just socialising to enterpreneurship - on his behalf.  What better method to have him do something meaningful with his time than through what he dedicates most of his time, and life to?

Yes,yes, the notes - I'm doing away with writing and going to be using the phone,yes you heard right, the phone and the computer.  Goodbye lousy handwriting, cant  read half the stuff I write anyway.

I have two readers to thank.  One, a young Chinese woman and another, a young man from Triangle... and to everyone else who follows and reads.  Blog is being picked up on Google quite a bit and I am ecstatic!!!!.